The perfect boyfriend

Men should be output minded beings. There must always be something that he is looking for. In attraction for example, they shouldn’t be just in it for the thrill, they’re in it for the result. Most men don’t get this so they immediately dial down after they’ve got a woman’s attention. As if it’s over and done already. Well it’s not. Being with a woman still takes a lot of hard work so don’t be like any of the other guys she dated who did exactly that. Be unique.

Cleanliness is the key
Take advantage of what women are like and what they want the most. For example, women in general, love cleanliness. So it would do you well to maintain a tidy flat. Show her that you are clean at home, this will give her an incentive to voluntarily come over. If you always just rush cleaning up, sooner or later she will find out and it just might disgust her in the end.

Develop skills
If you really want to stand out, try developing some skills. One classic example is knowing how to cook. I mean how many men do you know who knows how to cook well? Just learn a few simple recipes and make it a point to cook for her once in a while. You don’t have to be the best but being knowledgeable surely helps. And it works both ways too. One is that you’ll save so much more compared to treating her out and two, she’ll really appreciate the heart and effort that you put into cooking for her.

Show her you’re fun
You may also want to incorporate things in your home to give your girl the feeling that you are relaxed, fun and laid back. Try putting up pictures of family and friends. They show that you treasure the relationship that you have with others and she’ll relate to that. Plus they are great conversation starters.

Be the gentleman
Actions-wise, you should also practice being the perfect gentleman. Even simple gestures will really say a lot. Like offering your coat if it’s a little cold, pulling her chair for her when you’re dining out or holding the door open when she enters a room. You may not realize it immediately but you are steadily scoring points with her if you keep that up.

Now all of these take patience and practice. And balance too. You want to be a gentleman but not sissy. You want to be chivalrous but not cocky. Always keep balance and sooner or later, she will find the perfect boyfriend in you.

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