The Art of Flirting

Your approach.

One should approach the other at a closer proximity. If there is no approach, there is no possibility of a contact. One would initiate in a natural way. For example, a woman is seated on a bar, a man can stand beside her and perhaps order a drink. If a man is seated on a couch, the woman can seat beside him.

Read the signs.

Once have been approached, looked for a sign if one accommodates his/her presence. Read the body language if there are signs of accommodation like slight nods, a glance, eye contact, looking up from a seat, or moving on a seat to make room. Overlooking your presence is a sign of lack of interest. If this is the case, try to regroup and try another approach. If it works, you are now going one step higher.

The conversation.

Initiate some topic that will follow a casual conversation. Engage in a mild verbal exchange that covers impersonal and general matters, and having a conversation doesn’t necessary meant to be as a way of sharing insights about life or to determine the compatibility between you. The verbal exchange between has a purpose of developing further contact.

For example, you might ask from “may I borrow your ballpen?”, say “I like the way you smile”, and further compliment, “you look like a hollywood star” progressively. But without a verbal response, there would be a less chance for you to take another step. Assume that you’ve got the responses. Then its time for body language.

The body language.

Body language starts over a period of time, it would begin by turning physically to one another, probably towards facing each other. This gesture is your goal. It may take minutes to hours, to weeks or months, to achieve this. Without achieving this goal, there wouldn’t be any good reasons to go on. So if someone turns back to you, it would be probably a waste of time. But if everything goes well…

The physical contact.

On one way or another, the woman or man may touch the other in a light way like a slight pat on the back. For example, both may accidentally brush their hands against each other while reaching for a food or drink. In a split second , these glancing touches may end but continues to repeat over time. If everything goes well with the couple, then they would be able to step in to dating and relationship. Flirting ends when a relationship starts, so start flirting.

Searching for True Love through Online Dating

Many people prefer joining online dating sites nowadays. It is very popular because meeting new people is easy, convenient and fun. Online daters have the same interest and goals, and that is to meet and find their partners. People should consider their safety with dealing with strangers they met online. These people might use online dating services to cheat, lie and take advantage of others.
There are things you should remember in online dating. You should take it slow. It’s okay to pursue on someone but you should consider your safety. Follow what your instinct tells you. If you are hesitant towards the person, don’t go for it.

You should respect the privacy of others for them to respect yours too. Don’t give your personal information – name, address, telephone number, email address, etc. if you don’t know and trust the person. If you want to stay safe, you should be anonymous. Continue reading “Searching for True Love through Online Dating”

6 tips to a successful online dating experience

Online dating sites are now more popular than ever. Their members come form everywhere and are constantly growing. All of them are looking for the chance to help them find the one in…well, cyberspace.

You might feel the urge to join an online dating site so to help you do so, here are six tips to a successful online dating experience: Continue reading “6 tips to a successful online dating experience”